I have been saddened to see the continued support from prominent leaders for a protestant pastor who failed to protect children who were sexully abused. His failure to lead by reporting this predator (and maybe others) to authorities led to more children being sexually abused in other parts of the country. His actions and inactions have destroyed many lives. Yet, his well respected friends in leadership positions say he is being maligned and falsely accused. With court testimony and written testimony from dozens of witnesses you would think they couldn’t really be saying this, but they are. This is leadership malpractice. … Continue reading When friendship and leadership collide
I sometimes come across commenters and bloggers on the internet and my training is psychology causes little alarm bells to go off. With commenters people can just “trolls,” but other times there is something else going on. Such is the case with someone who goes by the username “A-Thought.” He joined an Apple news and enthusiasts site about 18 months ago and constantly promotes his Microsoft Surface Pro while criticizing Apple iPads. He has posted hundreds of times, and many of his posts are quite lengthy. “A-Thought” would insist that his behavior is intellectually based, that he is just serving as a counter-point of … Continue reading Online behaviors can reveal obsessive tendencies
An article in Outlook by the Bay that I wrote: Do our friendships change as we get older? Continue reading Do our friendships change as we get older?
A specially trained dog can make a huge difference in someone’s life: https://goo.gl/wJ6BvK Continue reading Can a dog change someone’s life?
My latest article: Why it’s a Great Time to be Over 50. From Outlook by the Bay magazine. Continue reading Why it’s a great time to be over 50
Most people who work or volunteer in non-profit organizations do so because of their interest or commitment to the mission or cause. Some of these people shift their focus to fretting and obsessing over money, talking very little about mission, values or vision. If they do in fact mention these words, it is really as a method to get more money for their chosen organization. Sometimes this shift affects entire organizations and they get into an endless loop of the majority of staff and volunteers chasing after donations. If they stumble upon moving the mission forward, they view it in … Continue reading Why Some Staff and Volunteers in Non-Profit Organizations Start to Obsess over Money
New legislation or new policies that support people with disabilities come around too infrequently. When they do happen, you will see calls to action that basically say “If you care about people with disabilities support this. Email your elected officials, and send us a donation to help us get this passed.” The problem is that most people never read the legislation or policy they are asked to support. Not every piece of pro-disability legislation is a good piece of legislation. The latest rallying point is the CRPD, a UN Treaty that President Obama has signed and the Senate is considering … Continue reading Convention on the Rights of Persons with Disabilities (CRPD)